Golf for Swifties (Part 3): [Maybe Don’t] Speak Now – Golf Etiquette

Howdy, You Beautiful Swiftie!

Etiquette plays a crucial role in maintaining the integrity and enjoyment of the game of golf. Understanding and following proper golf etiquette not only shows respect for the course and other players but also enhances the overall golfing experience. There are a lot of rules and social dynamics to consider, which can be overwhelming. However, if you can go through your spouse’s entire phone in 8-minutes flat, find out where your ex is living and what their relationship is like with their new mother-in-law, and conduct extensive background checks on all of your besties’ potential suiters, you can absolutely, 100% learn this game.

Here’s the Scoop on Etiquette

Here’s a list of important etiquette-related notes that have helped me feel more comfortable playing with more experienced golfers when I first started out and continue to help me stay present in the game. There’s also a super relevant, must-watch clip from one of my favorite comedians, Nate Bargatze.

Respect for the Course
Respecting the course is essential to maintain its condition and preserve its beauty. It also is a quick way for people to think you are an absolute jerk. Divots are a social test, if I’ve ever seen one. Much like if someone litters, not fixing divots and other noticeable marks you make in the fairways is a big indicator of a lack of respect. Here’s how you can show consideration for the course and future players by

  • Repair divots, ball marks, and rake bunkers to ensure the next player has a fair lie.
  • Follow cart rules to prevent course damage. Stick to paths, park in designated areas, and avoid greens/tees.
  • Don’t fight the animals.

Honoring Tee Times & Keep Pace of Play
Respecting tee times demonstrates consideration for other golfers. If you’re on time, you’re late. Nate Bargatze has a hilarious bit about golfing with his wife. Watch below 🙂

Regarding pace of play, You can be bad at golf – as long as you golf badly fast! Maintaining a good pace of play keeps the game enjoyable for everyone on the course. Ask your golf besties around you to help you keep tabs on your pace of play at first while you get the hang of things.

  • Be on time. For real-zies.
  • Maintain a good speed, regardless of performance, and be ready to play when it’s your turn.
  • Offer a helping hand, like spotting a lost ball.

Silence and Focus Be Mindful of Others
Being mindful of others’ playing experiences shows respect, consideration, and is just the right thing to do. Golf requires concentration, and distractions can negatively impact a player’s focus and performance. I, someone with ADHD, spent my first few years playing while untreated. A late diagnosis later, and I finally understand why I was so sensitive to noise and had to wear ear plugs. All of this to say, maybe don’t speak now mostly just applies to when people are setting up their shot and swinging.

  • Create an environment conducive to concentration by minimizing noise during others’ shots.
  • Turn off or silence mobile devices.
  • Avoid movement or standing in a player’s line of sight or in someone’s putting line.

Safety First
Golf involves the use of projectiles that can pose risks if not managed carefully. Prioritizing safety by being aware of your surroundings helps prevent accidents and keeps all players safe on the course. This is nothing to be taken lightly. Serious injury can occur.

  • Be aware of surroundings and shout “Fore!” when necessary to prevent accidents.
  • Wait until players ahead are out of range before taking a shot. If the group in front of you is out of site, but you aren’t sure if they are out of range, just go look. It will take two seconds. Worth it when you consider how time consuming and costly injuries are.

Adhering to golf etiquette rules demonstrates a commitment to the integrity, sportsmanship, and enjoyment of the game. By following these guidelines, you contribute to a positive golfing experience for yourself and fellow players, promoting a culture of respect and fairness on the course.