Introducing your person to golf can be a rewarding experience, providing opportunities for quality time, outdoor enjoyment, and concurrent personal growth. While there are some considerations to keep in mind, following these tips can help you make the process of getting your spouse into golf a successful and enjoyable experience. Here’s how my husband helped me fall in love with the game by embrace the shared experience, creating lasting memories, and enjoying the benefits of quality time.
Start with a Fun Introduction
Colin nailed this part of my intro to real golf. Take a page from his book by easing your partner into golf by planning a relaxed, casual outing to a driving range or activity-centered golf facility like mini-golf or Top Golf. Emphasize the fun aspect of the activity, creating a relaxed and enjoyable environment. Keep the pressure low and focus on FUN, friendly competition, and enjoying each other’s company.
Take Lessons Together
Enrolling in lessons together can be a great way to learn the fundamentals of golf. These lessons provided structured guidance that helped me to build a solid foundation. They also ensured I was developing correct techniques and practices. We’ve found that learning together enhanced the experience, continues to strengthen our bond, and encourages mutual support. 10/10 – would recommend!
Choose the Right Gear
Set your partner up for success with the right golf gear, prioritizing comfort and enjoyment on the course from jump. Consult with a knowledgeable golf pro or visit a golf store to help select clubs that are suitable. Consider factors like club length and weight, grip size, and clubhead design. If there’s one piece of advice I’d want readers to take away, it that initially renting or borrowing clubs is the way to go. What is golf just isn’t for your person. Avoid a large upfront investment and allow your spouse (aka future golf bestie) to get a feel for different types of gear as their playing style changes and becomes more natural.
Create a Supportive Environment
Being patient, encouraging, and supportive throughout the learning process is something that comes naturally to Colin. If I had to guess, it is partially because he’s always known if I fell in love with the game, he would get to golf more lol. Everyone progresses at their own pace and developing skills isn’t linear. Colin helped me celebrate small victories, offered constructive feedback, refrained from offering feedback if I said I wasn’t interested at that time in guidance, and focused on how much fun it was to spend time together on the course.
Colin-inspired tip: Create a safe and nurturing environment where your spouse feels comfortable taking risks and learning from their experiences.
Make it a Double Date
Invite other couples who play golf to join you for a round or participate in group golf events. This social aspect added an element of casual fun I needed and provided an opportunity to connect with other like-minded players. Why I love couples’ golf outings – playing with other couples allows for friendly competition, shared experiences, and the opportunity to learn from one another. It also creates a supportive network that can provide guidance, encouragement, and motivation throughout your initial stages of learning to golf.
Plan Golf-centered Vacations
Incorporate golf into your vacations and travel experiences. Explore destinations known for their golf courses and plan golf getaways together. This allowed us personally to combine our shared passion for golf with the excitement of exploring new places and enjoying quality time as a couple, even pre-marriage. Research golf resorts, book tee times in advance, and get jazzed to take the opportunity to play on unique and scenic courses. It’s magical.
Emphasize the Social Aspects of Golf
Highlight the social aspects of golf – specifically how it can help expand your networks as individuals – to make the time commitment more appealing. Talk about the potential networking opportunities, business connections, and social events typically associated with playing golf. Emphasize how the game can be a platform to engage with others, create meaningful connections, and enhance personal and professional relationships. (Read: tell your spouse about the friendship and hotdogs!!)
Remember, introducing your spouse to golf should be a collaborative and enjoyable journey. Be patient, supportive, and understanding as they navigate the learning process. By embracing golf as a shared activity, you can create cherished memories, strengthen your bond, and embark on a lifelong adventure together.
